Promises Of Joy

The LORD gives strength to his people; the Lord blesses his people with peace. [1 Corinthians 1:8] Sometimes when we are going through difficult times we ask ourselves where is God? is he real? Does he loves us? Why did he allows us to feel pain? But hey God is real and he assures us in his word that he doesn't give us the load that is above us, all he does he does is according to our capabilities... 

Instead of blaming others for your pain you need to learn to live with it. If it something you cannot change live with it, if it's something you can change don't wait for too long to change it just do immediately so that you can be able to find closure and move on... It's okay to feel pain, it's okay to cry it all out but what's not okay is to blame yourself or others for having that pain...

When life gets tough we loose hope that we even forget that things can change for better. The only thing that fills our heart and minds is only pain that we go through. We tend to even think that we are cursed and unloved because of the bad things that's happening to us from time to time. We sometimes even loose ourselves trying to make sense of the painful things that life throws at us. We tend to forget about the good things we have and we chase people who are there for us. We often look for someone to blame for most of the bad things that happen to us, of which is not right...